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Friday, 29 December 2017

7 Proven Ways To Overcome Depression Naturally











 
The usual treatments for depression are prescription antidepressant medications which, in theory, work by increasing levels of “feel good” brain chemicals. But prescription antidepressants work for less than half of those who try them and have a high relapse rate. There’s evidence they are no more effective than a placebo, but have a lot more side effects.

If you’ve gone the medical route with little success or are hesitant to try medication, you might feel hopeless — that there is little else you can do. But fortunately there are many natural ways to treat depression that have been scientifically proven to work often as good as or better than antidepressants. Here’s a look at some of the best natural ways to beat depression.

Buying fresh food from your local farmers' market is good for your brain and body. Via: Peter Bernik | Shutterstock.
Buying fresh food from your local farmers’ market is good for your brain and body. 

Avoid Processed Food
There’s an ongoing debate as to what is the best way to eat for general health and mental health. Is it paleo, vegetarian, raw foods, gluten-free, or the Mediterranean diet? I’m not going to try to convince you here of what is the healthiest diet — the best diet for you may not be the best for everyone else. But one thing the healthiest diets have in common is that they focus on eating real food.

Processed food, fast food and commercial baked goods are linked to depression. The benefits of eating unprocessed food are twofold. First, it greatly increases your chances of getting the vitamins, minerals, amino acids, and other nutrients your brain needs to function. And secondly, it eliminates additives known to contribute to depression like white sugarMSG and artificial sweeteners.

Coconut oil uniquely feeds the brain with medium-chain fatty acids. Via: Geo-grafika | Shuuterstock.
Coconut oil uniquely feeds the brain with medium-chain fatty acids. 

Eat Healthy Fats
Besides eating unprocessed food, the other dietary rule for depression is to eat plenty of healthy fats. Your brain is largely made of fat — about 60 percent by dry weight. A lot of that is cholesterol since 25 percent of the body’s cholesterol resides in the brain. Cholesterol, in spite of what we’ve been told, does not cause heart disease. But too little cholesterol increases your risk of depression and even suicide. Dr. David Perlmutter, author of the bestselling book Grain Brain, discovered in his neurology practice that nothing was worse for his patients’ brains than a low-fat diet. He recommends eating plenty of healthy fats like nuts, avocados, coconut oil, olive oil, wild salmon and grass-fed meat.

Research has found that the more unhealthy trans fats you consume, the higher your risk of depression. The simple act of replacing vegetable oils that contain trans fats, like canola oil, with olive oil decreases risk of depression by almost 50 percent. Coconut oil, recently rediscovered as a healthy fat, uniquely feeds the brain with medium-chain fatty acids. It’s as effective for depression as prescription antidepressants.

People with depression tend to have lower blood levels of omega-3 essential fatty acids. Omega-3s are an integral structural component of brain cell membranes and nerve cells. One omega-3 in particular that’s critical for brain function is docosahexaenoic acid (DHA). DHA deficiency is linked to depression, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia. The best dietary sources of omega-3 fats and DHA are cold-water fatty fish like salmon and sardines. If these are not a regular part of your diet, consider taking a fish oil or a DHA supplement.

Exercise outdoors to maximize your brain boost. Via: Blackzheep | Shutterstock.
Exercise outdoors to maximize your brain boost. Via: Blackzheep | Shutterstock.
Get Physical Exercise

Physical exercise is one of the best things you can do for elevating your mood. It increases circulation to deliver more oxygen, glucose, and nutrients to your brain while clearing out toxins and metabolic debris. Exercise builds a healthier brain by increasing the levels of brain chemicals that promote new brain cell formation and new neural connections. 

It actually reorganizes the brain so that it responds better to stress. Regular physical exercise has been found to work better for depression than SSRIs (selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors), the drugs usually prescribed for depression.


Dr. John Ratey, renowned psychiatrist and author of Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain, has extensively studied the impact of physical exercise on the brain. He’s found that exercise is the single most powerful tool you have to optimize your brain function and that it works as well as Zoloft for depression. According to Ratey, here’s how exercise works: “Aside from elevating endorphins, exercise also increases our body and brain levels of endocannabinoids, brain growth factors (BDNF) and regulates all of the neurotransmitters targeted by antidepressants.”

If possible, exercise outdoors which is considerably more beneficial than indoor exercise. Outdoor exercise increases vitality, enthusiasm, pleasure, and self-esteem while lowering tension, depression, and fatigue even better than indoor exercise. Outdoor exercise helps to reset your circadian rhythm to help you sleep. Under the right circumstances, it can help replenish your valuable stores of vitamin D. Vitamin D can lift your mood and prevent the winter blues. Amazingly, the exercise you do today can protect you from depression for up to five years, even if you decide to stop exercising. But with all of these great benefits, why would you want to stop?

Meditation is a powerful tool to manage mood. Via: Evdokimov Maxim | Shutterstock.
Meditation is a powerful tool to manage mood. Via: Evdokimov Maxim |

The evidence is overwhelming that regular meditation is one of the best ways to heal depression. Researchers from Johns Hopkins University sifted through over 18,000 meditation studies and concluded that meditation is beneficial for mental disorders of all kinds and one of its best uses is for depression. Meditation works on many levels. It increases levels of both serotonin, your “happiness molecule,” and gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA), the relaxing neurotransmitter, and it reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which significantly contributes to depression. It also puts out the fire of brain inflammation, which is associated with depression. And it quiets the mind and reduces negative self-talk, a problem for everyone but especially for those with a mood disorder.

Using the healing powers of the mind goes beyond traditional meditation too. According to the University of Maryland’s Complementary and Alternative Medicine Guide, depression responds favorably to mind-body healing techniques of all kinds, not only meditation. A partial list includes guided imagery, self-hypnosis, yoga, breathing exercises, autogenic training, acupuncture, biofeedback, and neurofeedback.

Gratitude. Via: TL_Studio | Shutterstock.
People who are depressed express nearly 50 percent less gratitude. 

Develop An Attitude Of Gratitude
You don’t have to wait until Thanksgiving to count your blessings. Incorporating a daily practice of gratitude can improve your health, relationships, self-esteem, and sleep. Research shows that it can also make you happier. Gratitude and depression seem to be inversely proportional.

In studies, people who are depressed express nearly 50 percent less gratitude than control groups. Conversely, the more grateful a person is, the less depressed he is likely to be. Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the University of California, is considered the world’s leading scientific expert on gratitude. His research confirms that gratitude effectively increases happiness and reduces depression. Gratitude may work by reducing underlying toxic emotions such as envy, frustration, resentment, and regret.

An easy way to get started on your gratitude practice is to write down three things you are grateful for each evening. If you can’t think of anything, it’s OK to start small. Oprah Winfrey, an enthusiastic supporter of gratitude, recommends starting with basics like having a bed to sleep in, if that’s all you can think of. If you don’t want to take pen to paper, you can use an app like Gratitude 365. The important thing is to create a new habit. Practicing gratitude creates a surge of mood-boosting brain chemicals like dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin.

Turmeric is renowned for its brain-boosting properties. Via: nayneung1 | Shutterstock.
Turmeric is renowned for its brain-boosting properties. Via: nayneung1 | Shutterstock.
Try Herbal Remedies For Depression

While adopting a healthy lifestyle is always recommended, it won’t always be enough to conquer the black dog of depression. Herbal remedies can help. You might be surprised to learn that herbal remedies have been used medicinally to treat depression in every traditional culture. Apparently depression isn’t just a modern malady. Many of these traditional herbs have been scientifically proven to be just as effective as antidepressants and some increase the effectiveness of medications when taken together.

In traditional Chinese medicine, Arctic root (Rhodiola rosea), Asian ginseng (Panax ginseng), and ginkgo (Ginkgo biloba) have been used for depression for thousands of years. Now science is beginning to understand how these ancient herbs work.
Arctic root increases the activity of the mood-enhancing neurotransmitters serotonin, norepinephrine and dopamine. It’s particularly useful for depression accompanied by anxiety and fatigue or that’s caused by seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Arctic root reduces depression symptoms faster than antidepressant medications, often bringing relief in as little as one week.

Ginkgo is one of the most popular herbal remedies on the planet. It’s most commonly used as a memory booster but it’s even more effective for depression than memory loss. It’s known for its ability to increase blood flow to the brain. It raises levels of dopamine and serotonin while lowering levels of the stress hormone cortisol.


Most people take Asian ginseng to increase physical stamina or improve their sex life, but it’s also beneficial for both depression and anxiety. It’s the main ingredient in the traditional Chinese herbal formula Kai Xin San, a combination of herbs that’s just as good as Prozac for treating depression.


India has its own healing tradition known as Ayurvedic medicine. One of the most important Ayurvedic herbs is ashwagandha (Withania somnifera). It’s been used for over 3,000 years as a general tonic to ward off stress and aging. Ashwagandha excels in its ability to reduce stress by reducing cortisol, making it a good choice for stress-related depression accompanied by anxiety and insomnia. Unlike some supplements which should not be taken along with medications, ashwagandha has been shown to work synergistically with SSRIs.



Another Ayurvedic antidepressant is the spice turmeric (Curcuma longa), renowned for its brain-boosting properties. This spice plays an important role in the culinary traditions of India and southern Asia. Most studies have been done on turmeric’s main active ingredient, curcumin. Curcumin works by increasing levels of the two “feel good” neurotransmitters, serotonin and dopamine. It’s as effective for depression as Prozac even for major depressive disorder and, unlike medication, is safe to take indefinitely. Like ashwagandha, curcumin enhances the effectiveness of antidepressants.

You might be familiar with saffron as a culinary spice used in Indian and Persian cuisine. It might not be in your spice rack since it’s one of the most expensive spices in the world, but what’s not widely known about saffron is that it’s one of the most promising herbal remedies for depression. It works by acting on serotonin metabolism and is as effective for depression as Prozac (sound familiar by now?). If you decide to give saffron supplements a try, make sure you buy a supplement that contains a standardized extract of Crocus sativus. Since saffron is expensive, saffron fraud is rampant.

Homeopathy can work as well for depression as prescription medication. Via: filmfoto | Shutterstock.
Homeopathy can work as well for depression as prescription medication.

Use Homeopathic Remedies

Homeopathy is a controversial healing practice. The medical community largely believes homeopathy is quackery and that, if it works at all, it’s due to the placebo effect. This is ironic since there’s evidence that antidepressants are no more effective than a placebo — and have a lot more side effects! Even many who believe in the healing power of herbs and nutritional supplements consider homeopathy “herbal remedies lite” — nothing more than watered-down herbs. If you are among the skeptics, it might surprise you to learn that homeopathy can work as well for depression as prescription antidepressants.

The key to homeopathy is finding the specific remedy that works for you. Since one-size-fits-all rarely works with anything, this is no different than finding the right drug or nutritional supplement. For best results, get the professional advice of a trained homeopath. If that’s not feasible, you can increase your chance of success with a multi-ingredient homeopathic remedy specifically formulated for depression.

According to psychiatrist Dr. Stuart Watson, who has published dozens of scientific research papers on mood disorders, some of the best homeopathic remedies for depression include Arsenicum album, Aurum metallicum, Ignatia amara, Lachesis muta, Natrium muraticum, Pulsatilla nigricans, and Sepia. Once you’ve found the right remedy, studies show the appropriate homeopathic remedy can work as well as a prescription antidepressants even for moderate to severe depression.

Thursday, 28 December 2017

How To Overcome Tragedy


Don't Cry


Don't Cry

Tragedy strikes all of us. Blessed are those who swim through the tide and emerge triumphant. But not all have that inner strength to overcome grief. Here are some inspiring pearls of wisdom that help us gather ourselves
Don't Lose Hope

Don't Lose Hope

There is a saying in Tibetan, 'Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.' No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope that's our real disaster ― Dalai Lama XIV
Ride The Wave

Ride The Wave

You never really know what's coming. A small wave, or maybe a big one. All you can really do is hope that when it comes, you can surf over it, instead of drown in its monstrosity ― Alysha Speer

Laughter The Best Medicine

The world is a tragedy to those who feel, but a comedy to those who think ― Horace Walpole

Be A Survivor

The depth of the feeling continued to surprise and threaten me, but each time it hit again and I bore it...I would discover that it hadn't washed me away ― Anne Lamott


13 Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Successful

”Somebody once told me the definition of hell: “On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become.” — Anonymus
Sometimes, to become successful, we do not need to add more things, we need to give up on some of them.
Even though each one of us has a different definition of success, there are certain things that are universal, which, if you give up on them, you will be more successful.
Some of them you can give up today, while it might take a bit longer for others.


1. Give Up On The Unhealthy Lifestyle

“Take care of your body. It is the only place you have to live.” — Jim Rohn
If you want to achieve anything in life, everything starts here. First, you have to take care of your health, and there are only two things you need to keep in mind:
  1. Healthy Diet
  2. Physical Activity
Small steps, but you will thank yourself one day.


2. Give Up The Short-term Mindset

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”Mae West
Successful people set long-term goals, and they know that these aims are merely the result of short-term habits that they need to do every day.
These healthy habits should not be something you do; they should be something you are.
There is a difference between: “Working out to have summer body” and “Working out because that is who you are.”


3. Give Up Playing Small

“Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson
If you never try and take great opportunities, or allow your dreams to become realities, you will never realize your true potential.
Moreover, the world will never benefit from what you could have achieved.
So voice your ideas, don’t be afraid to fail, and certainly don’t be afraid to succeed.



4. Give Up Your Excuses

“It is not about the cards you are dealt, but how you play the hand.” - Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture
Successful people know that they are responsible for their life, no matter their starting point, weaknesses, and past failures.
Realizing that you are entirely responsible for what happens next in your life, is both frightening and exciting.
However, it is the only way that you can reach the success because excuses limit and prevent us from growing personally and professionally.
Own your life; no one else will.


5. Give Up The Fixed Mindset

“The future belongs to those who learn more skills and combine them in creative ways.”  ― Robert Greene, Mastery
In a fixed mindset, people believe that their intelligence or talent, are simply fixed traits and that talent alone creates success — without effort. They are wrong.
Moreover, successful people know this. They invest an immense amount of time on a daily basis to develop a growth mindset, acquire new knowledge, learn new skills and change their perception so that it can benefit their lives.
Remember, who you are today, it is not whom you have to be tomorrow.



6. Give Up Believing In The “Magic Bullet.”

“Every day, in every way, I’m getting better and better” — Émile Coué
Overnight success is a myth.
Successful people know that making small continuous improvement every day, will be compounded over time, and give them desired results.
That why you should plan for the future, but focus on the day that’s ahead of you, and improve just 1%.


7. Give Up Your Perfectionism

“Shipping beats perfection.” — Kahn Academy’s Development Mantra
Nothing will ever be perfect, no matter how much we try.
Fear of failure (or even fear of success) often prevents us from taking action and putting our creation out there in the world. However, many opportunities will be lost if we wait for things to be right.
So, “ship,” and then improve (that 1%).



8. Give Up Multi-tasking

“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.”  ― Winston S. Churchill
Successful people know this. That is why they choose one thing and then beat it into submission. No matter what, a business idea, a conversation, or a workout.
Being fully present and committed to one task, is indispensable.


9. Give Up Your Need to Control Everything

“Some things are up to us, and some things are not up to us.” — Epictetus, Stoic philosopher
Differentiating these two is important.
Detach from the things you cannot control, and focus on the ones you can, and know that sometimes, the only thing you will be able to monitor is your attitude towards something.
Moreover, remember, nobody can be frustrated while saying “Bubbles” in an angry voice.



10. Give Up Saying YES To Things That Don’t Support Your Goals

“He who would accomplish little must sacrifice little; he who would achieve much must sacrifice much; he who would attain highly must sacrifice greatly.” — James Allen
Successful people know this that to accomplish their goals, they will have to say NO to tasks, activities, and demands from your friends, family, and colleagues.
On a short-term, you might sacrifice a bit of instant gratification, but when your goals come to fruition, it will be worth it.


11. Give Up The Toxic People

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” - Jim Rohn
People we spend the most time with, add up to whom we become.
There are less ambitious people, and there are more ambitious people than us. If you spend time with the ones that are less driven than you, your average will go down, and with it your success.
However, if you spend time with people more advanced than you, no matter how challenging that might be, you will be more successful.
Take a look at around yourself, and see if you need to make any changes.



12. Give Up Your Need To Be Liked

“The only way to avoid pissing people off is to do nothing important.” — Oliver Emberton
Think of yourself as a market niche.
There will be many people that like that niche, but there will be individuals who do not, and no matter what you do, you will not be able to make an entire market like you.
This is entirely natural, and there’s no need to do anything to justify yourself.
The only thing you can do is continue being authentic, and know that growing number of “haters” means that you are doing important things.



13. Give Up Your Dependency on The Social Media & Television

“The trouble is, you think you have time” — Jack Kornfield
Impulsive web browsing and television watching is a disease of today’s society.
These two should never be an escape from your life or your goals.
Unless your goals depend on either, you should minimize (or eliminate) your dependency on them. Moreover, direct that time towards things that can enrich your life.




Great success is often preceded by failure

You will never experience true success until you learn to embrace failure. Your mistakes pave the way for you to succeed by revealing when you’re on the wrong path.
The biggest breakthroughs typically come when you’re feeling the most frustrated and the most stuck. It’s this frustration that forces you to think differently, to look outside the box and see the solution that you’ve been missing.
Success takes patience and the ability to maintain a good attitude even while suffering for what you believe in.

Being busy does not equal being productive

Look at everyone around you. They all seem so busy -- running from meeting to meeting and firing off emails. Yet how many of them are really producing, really succeeding at a high level?
Success doesn’t come from movement and activity. It comes from focus -- from ensuring that your time is used efficiently and productively.
You get the same number of hours in the day as everyone else. Use yours wisely. After all, you’re the product of your output, not your effort. Make certain your efforts are dedicated to tasks that get results.

You’re only as good as those you associate with

You should strive to surround yourself with people who inspire you, people who make you want to be better. And you probably do. But what about the people who drag you down? Why do you allow them to be a part of your life?
Anyone who makes you feel worthless, anxious or uninspired is wasting your time and, quite possibly, making you more like them. Life is too short to associate with people like this. Cut them loose.

You’re living the life you’ve created

You are not a victim of circumstance. No one can force you to make decisions and take actions that run contrary to your values and aspirations.
The circumstances you’re living in today are your own -- you created them. Likewise, your future is entirely up to you. If you’re feeling stuck, it’s probably because you’re afraid to take the risks necessary to achieve your goals and live your dreams.

When it’s time to take action, remember that it’s always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than at the top of one you don’t.

Fear is the #1 source of regret

When it’s all said and done, you will lament the chances you didn’t take far more than you will your failures. Don’t be afraid to take risks.

I often hear people say, “What’s the worst thing that can happen to you? Will it kill you?” Yet, death isn’t the worst thing that can happen to you.
The worst thing that can happen to you is allowing yourself to die inside while you’re still alive.

You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive

Life goes a lot smoother once you let go of grudges and forgive even those who never said they were sorry. Grudges let negative events from your past ruin today’s happiness. Hate and anger are emotional parasites that destroy your joy in life.
The negative emotions that come with holding on to a grudge create a stress response in your body, and holding on to stress can have devastating health consequences. Researchers at Emory University have shown that holding on to stress contributes to high blood pressure and heart disease.
When you forgive someone, it doesn’t condone their actions; it simply frees you from being their eternal victim.


Live in the moment


You can’t reach your full potential until you learn to live your life in the present.
No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future. It’s impossible to be happy if you’re constantly somewhere else, unable to fully embrace the reality (good or bad) of this very moment.
To help yourself live in the moment, you must do two things:
  1. Accept your past. If you don’t make peace with your past, it will never leave you and, in doing so, it will create your future.
  2. Accept the uncertainty of the future. Worry has no place in the here and now. As Mark Twain once said, “Worrying is like paying a debt you don’t owe.”

Your self-worth must come from within


When your sense of pleasure and satisfaction are derived from comparing yourself to others, you are no longer the master of your own destiny. When you feel good about something that you’ve done, don’t allow anyone’s opinions or accomplishments to take that away from you.

While it’s impossible to turn off your reactions to what others think of you, you don’t have to compare yourself to others and you can always take people’s opinions with a grain of salt. That way, no matter what other people are thinking or doing, your self-worth comes from within. Regardless of what people think of you at any particular moment, one thing is certain -- you’re never as good or bad as they say you are.

 Life is short

None of us are guaranteed a tomorrow. Yet, when someone dies unexpectedly it causes us to take stock of our own life: what’s really important, how we spend our time and how we treat other people.
Loss is a raw, visceral reminder of the frailty of life. It shouldn’t be.
Remind yourself every morning when you wake up that each day is a gift and you’re bound to make the most of the blessing you’ve been given. The moment you start acting like life is a blessing is the moment it will start acting like one.
After all, a great day begins with a great mindset.


Change is inevitable -- embrace it


Only when you embrace change can you find the good in it. You need to have an open mind and open arms if you’re going to recognize and capitalize on, the opportunities that change creates.
You’re bound to fail when you keep doing the same things you always have in the hope that ignoring change will make it go away.

After all, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
Life doesn’t stop for anyone. When things are going well, appreciate them and enjoy them, as they are bound to change. If you are always searching for something more, something better, that you think is going to make you happy, you’ll never be present enough to enjoy the great moments before they’re gone.